The Multi-Orgasmic Night

See if this fits your current love making routines:

You come home (or both come home) from a long day at work.  If your spouse stays at home with the kids, you pitch in to help him/her, taking time with the kids and finding out how their day was.  You cook supper, eat, clean up dishes, do a bit of housework, get your kids ready for bed, get them to bed, and then you finally have alone time…

…and you’re exhausted!

Seems like an all to familiar scenario in our house and I am sure many others.

I work full-time hours, Cindy is a stay-at-home mom and keeps another kid for extra income.  All of the kids, including ours, are young, so her day is full of assisting them as well as doing work around the house.

My day is full of my job and my nights, until the kids go to bed, is usually full with them.

So when we finally go to bed, love making is usually a shortened affair.

Too short sometimes.

Cindy is too nice sometimes and just worries about making sure I have an orgasm, and that is it.  Being the horny husband I am, I try to do her as well, but sometimes she would just rather not.

And I appreciate the gesture, but its just not as fun.

So as I was pondering what the problem was, I came to one simple conclusion:  We, and many others, simply do not take enough time for each other when having sex.  So the easy answer to this is a multiple orgasm night.

Guys are blessed with a built-in timer.  Some guys have shorter timers than others, but none of us can have orgasms that back-to-back.  We are also great at not lasting as long as our women typically.  So to make sure both women and men get more enjoyment and spend more time in the art of love making, I thought it would be a good idea to take one night multiple times a month and work towards both partners having more than one orgasm.

My thought?

It helps guys to not be one-and-done but rather focus on really pleasing their wives.

And it helps women to make sure their sexual needs are met.

Cindy and I have been talking about this and will be making our multi-orgasmic nights fairly regularly (once we all get over the sickness that is floating around our community and friends).  I view it as a personal challenge to give her two great orgasms on these nights.

So here we go….you can use our Sex Act Of The Week as a starting point to finding positions or foreplay and orgasms, or you can just do your own thing.  The key is to spend more time being sexual with each other and have fun, make memories, and make sure you meet the others needs….at least twice!

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