Sex Act Of The Week #1 – Erotic Massage

By | Oct 3, 2009

For our first Sex Act Of The Week, the team decided on Erotic Massage.

Fairly self explanatory on how this goes, but as we were discussing, we all came up with some great suggestions to make this very sensual, sexy, and a lot of fun:

  • Turn off the TV!  But if you have a way for music to play, play the music.
  • If you have a blindfold, use it.  It will heighten sensitivity.
  • Some prefer the use of lotions, some don’t.  Find out what your parter wants and do that.
  • This gives you the opportunity to really focus on your partner’s erogenous zones other than their genitals.
  • Don’t be afraid to kiss your parnter on different areas of his or her body while doing this.
  • And definitely don’t be afraid to tease your partner.  Brush your hands against their genitals to build anticipation and excitement!

For some females an orgasm can be achieved through massage.  So as your man is massaging you, think about sex.  Think about how you feel sexually, how it feels when your man performs oral sex or intercourse while getting rubbed.  If something feels particular good and gives you some sexual excitement, let your man know!

Remember, the point of our Sex Acts Of The Week are meant to highten intimacy.  We choose these based on things we individually like, thinks we’d like to try, and things we think would push us sexually.  All of us want to take our sex lives to another level and encourage others to do the same.

For each week, we suggest performing the act at least twice.  We plan on writing about our experiences and want you to share yours with us.  We are all looking forward to reading your comments.

Ron & Selena and Jeff & Cindy

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  1. Erotic Music October 3, 2009 4:55 pm

    Erotic massages are the best! ;)

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